First of all, this brings us joy. This is one of the exact reasons this book has been written. To bring restoration and hope to marriages. There are many marriages that have been divorced and have now re-married. Yours could be this too. The important thing is to invite God into this process and ask Him to do the amazing transformation that only He can do. My encouragement to you is to join the Rejoice Marriage Ministries distribution to start praying with other standers. Then I would work with a counselor to help determine what is the best way to move forward.